For people who have taken stock of their life and found it wanting, they often look at how they can make effective changes that will get them what they want. Those who are serious about their own needs are often willing to take the time to sit down and analyze their needs, and they will form a plan to make it happen. It will not avail them unless they put their plan into motion, and this is the point where many people fail to make necessary changes. Others are less serious, and they dive in with what seem to be random changes.
People who plan are often very detail oriented, and some of them feel it is not worth taking any steps until they have resolved all their issues. They spend a great deal of time imagining what might occur, so they continue to plan rather than begin their journey towards a better life. It might seem to them that they are doing everything necessary to make changes, but they are actually avoiding that first step in their journey. They need to work at being able to improvise so they can begin.
A person who is more apt to go through life without a detailed plan is often a person who counts on the chaos of their life to inspire them, but it does not always work well. They simply begin doing something new in the hope their life will suddenly become what they want, but their lack of direction can lead them in circles. For them, it is important to look realistically at their life before making changes, and they should choose just one major move to get them started on the right path.
Each person reacts differently to their own life circumstances, but those who have a goal in mind will have a better chance to accomplish it. For those who are lonely, meeting the right person for them will not occur until they have their own life under control.